Stereo & Electronics - Remote start help?

ANybody here installed them before that I can ask some q's? I've found all of the wires it saud I needed to find. All 6 of them. Then I get into the manual and I need to find about 20 more. I can't remember off hand what they are since I'm sitting in class. And the guys at Best Buy won't give me one ounce of help. I haven't called Directed yet though. It's a Valet 551R.

Thanks, Andy